REMINDER: if you have a vagina and want to use Plan B as an emergency contraceptive, it loses effectiveness if you weigh more than 165 lbs (74.84 kg) and is completely ineffective for those that weight more than 176 lbs (79.83 kg) (x)
Let me spread the shit out of this.
This is horrifying. And sadly true.
I am Steve Hansen, and I approve this message.
If you disrespect women in the tech industry, the angry spirits of Ada Lovelace, the world’s first computer programmer, and Grace Hopper, the creator of the first compiler, will delete all the commenting from someone’s code just before you have to debug it.
What the hell?
Niggas out here trappin women
Then wonder how your ass got burned
what the fuck…
I’ve had a dude do that before. that shit is terrifying. Dude went across the room like he typically would to get one. Came back and I didn’t know that he didn’t have one until he pulled out.
I FLIPPED. Cried all the way home. Cried for days. Got tested. Bought the morning after pill. Seriously, fuck dudes that do this. There should be laws against it.
There ARE laws against this. It’s called rape by deception or fraudulent rape and basically, it’s anytime the conditions of your consent are compromised. In a situation like this, you consented to protected sex. By having sex in a way you did not consent to, a crime WAS committed and he could be charged if any physical effects like pregnancy or STD occurred. Remember, ANY SEXUAL ACTIVITY YOU DON’T CONSENT TO IS RAPE.
If a guy does this, it’s rape. Call the cops. Ruin his life since he has no problem risking yours. Make him fucking learn. Rapists belong in jail. Rape by deception is rape, not a funny “meme”.
This is incredibly important for everyone to see!! EVERYONE
yes YOU NEED THIS ON YOUR DASH EVERYONE
Don’t forget that WOMEN ARE ALLOWED TO PUT THE CONDOM ON THE GUY. Learn to put a condom on with your mouth, or give a sexy handjob and do it. (or just tell him no rubber no pussy)
I agree that it is a terrible thing for men to do but it is also crummy to act like we aren’t allowed to do it ourselves. (Until this post I had no idea it was the guys responsibility to put on a condom, I have always done it myself.)
True it’s not just the man’s responsibility to put on the condom women can and do help in that respect. The issue here isn’t who is putting on the condom it’s the deception on the part of the man in this case that is deplorable. By removing the terms of consent by deception you remove consent.
Just wanna add that it doesn’t fucking matter that women can also put condoms on, and bringing it up in this context is pretty victim-blamey. If a guy makes you believe he is wearing a condom when he is actually not, he is scum (and a rapist).
If you personally feel safter putting it on yourself or somehow double checking that it’s there, that’s great (I always make at least some small effort to double check out of an, apparently somewhat non-irrational paranoia). But you shouldn’t have to fucking double check that someone you are sleeping with is respecting your basic well-being. Lying or otherwise deceiving a girl about wearing a condom makes a dude a piece of shit rapist. It doesn’t say anything about the woman’s lack of vigilance or whatever the fuck.
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